To everyone who has been visiting this website over the past 17 months... Thank You. For those of us who love Angela, these past 17 months have been difficult but we are all thankful for having her in our lives.
Shortly before 6 p.m. Friday, Feb. 13, Angela passed from this earth. Her last days were very peaceful and without pain. David and Tammy were at her side.
The Fluker family wishes to thank everyone associated with Dr. Patrick Stagg, Mary Bird Perkins Cancer Center, Duke University Medical Center and St. Joseph Hospice Carpenter House for the care they have provided. They also wish to thank everyone who has visited, brought food and kept them in their prayers since Angela’s diagnosis in September 2007.
Visitation at Wilbert’s Funeral Home in Plaquemine Monday, Feb. 16 from 5 p.m. until 9 p.m. Visitation resumes Tuesday, Feb. 17 at 8 a.m. at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church in Plaquemine until services officiated by Father John Carville at 10 a.m. Interment in Grace Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Joseph's Hospice Foundation or to Mary Bird Perkins Cancer Center.
If you have any special memories of Angela you would like to share with David and his children, you may post those thoughts here or you can email them to: angelafluker@gmail.com. If you have any photos of Angela you would like to share, please email them to that same address.
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David, Tammy, John Michael, Steele, and all the other people who have surrounded Angela, David, Alex, Christian, and Katherine during this journey, May God bless you and hold you up during this time of grieving. I know that you all must be hurting but trust that God has taken Angela Carville Fluker to a better place that we too will one day get to see. We can be sure that she will have the place covered in fleur de lis when we get there. God is watching over you all. I am praying and look forward to celebrating her life with you all next week. Imagine how beautiful the face of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ must be to her. That alone will cause her to forget the pain and suffering that she has endured over the last year and a half.
In the sweet love of Him who sent for her.
Pam
Our hearts and prayers are with all of you.
We love you.
Eugene and Debi
memories surround me
but sadness has found me
i'd do anything for more time
never before has someone meant more
and i can't get you out of my mind
there is so much that i don't understand
but i know
chorus:
you're dancing with the angels
walking in new life
you're dancing with the angels
heaven fills your eyes
now that you're dancing with the angels
you had love for your family
love for all people
love for the Father, and Son
your heart will be heard
in your unspoken words
through generations to come
there is so much that i don't understand
but i know
chorus:
you're dancing with the angels
walking in new life
your're dancing with the angels
heaven fills your eyes
now that your're dancing with the angels
we're only here for such a short time
so i'm gonna stand up
shout out
and sing hallelujah
one day i'll see you again
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
To David and family and friends who have been there at Angela's side throughout her fight.... I lift each of you up in prayer and ask that God comfort you in this sad time. Nick and I would love to be there with you, but know that our hearts are there and we are celebrating the incredible life and spirit of Angela with you.
Love,
Dawn & Nick
David,
This news makes us so sad.
We are praying that our Heavenly Father will comfort your heart.
Jeff and Laurie Howard
Love, peace and HOPE...
My goodness. I have read those four words many times over the past number of months. So much, in a way, I feel like I know Lowry. Then I think again... I guess I do, because she is in Angela’a family... a family we ALL belong to. Wow. Cool, huh?
What do they mean to me?
LOVE. Love for Angela. She know what love is more than we do, since she is now with God (how amazing is that?).
PEACE. Peace for Dave and the children. Now, and for many tomorrows.
HOPE. Hope for us still on this earth. Hope that we gain what we can from this walk with Angela.
Dave, I know, without question, Angela is free. No more pain, no more sadness, no more... well, no more of the stuff we all worry about! It makes me smile when I think of what Angela must be doing right now.
If did not not know her parents, but, like others said, I am sure she is with them now. That is so good! David, I am sure your Mama has welcomed her as well.. probably played a song or two on the piano for her!
Now.. do you know what I thought about? OK, picture this... she gets to heaven, they welcome her in.. she sees all the splendor.. then guess who comes up... KEEBO! Does that make you smile, or what?
David, you are on my heart, more tonight than ever. Please know that we are still by your side. The same goes for John Michael, Steele... all of you... along with all of the other angels that have been by your side.
My prayer is that we ALL continue to our lives her with Love, Peace and Hope.
...thanks sister Lowry! :)
xxoo,
Jayne
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T2CreativeTN@aol.com
My thoughts and prayers remain with your family. It's been a long, tough battle for all of you and now Angela is finally at rest.
May the Lord grant you comfort and strength in your journey ahead.
Deron and Tina Wiker
David,
I'm so sorry to hear the news that Angela passed away. I know this is a difficult time for you & the kids. I will continue to pray for you, as I have been doing.
I know that Angela is now pain free & with Jesus. I hope that brings you comfort & peace during this time.
Sherry Wilson
Dear David, Alex, Christian, and beautiful Katherine (NO!),
Please know that I am praying constantly for you all. You are all secure in the love of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and He alone will be your comfort. There are no words to say, no gestures to perform, and no way to convey the sorrow that burdens my heart for this family. I trust God with all my heart though and I believe him when in his word he tells us he will take care of us. He DELIGHTS in us and he is our strongtower. He is our refuge and our hiding place. Oh David, now is the time to lean not on your own understanding, but rely on God to guide and direct you. When your world and future are so full of doubt and pain, it is in those times that God reveals himself through the people he places in your midst and through the angels he directs to comfort you. Trust him completely. You are ever so close to my heart right now and I weep at the thought of you going this alone. Thank God for the love of your friends and family. I wish, oh how I wish this would not have happened, but God has a plan and a perfect purpose and you will one day see it was for the good. That is so hard to get your head around now, but he promises that ALL things work together for good for those who are in Christ Jesus. Knowing that you are secure in your salvation I do not worry for your future. It will be good again one day. It is for that day that I pray now. A day that God will reveal that he has a plan for your future, one not for destruction, but for a hope and a future. That's my life verse, you, too can claim it. It is a promise (Jer 29:11) I love your lovely family David and will be there to celebrate the life of your lovely wife on Tuesday. May God carry you through as you begin to go on with your life again. You were the best representation of a biblical husband I think I have EVER seen. God will reward you for that. He will. I am praying, as always. If you need anything you know where I am.
Take care and God bless you and keep you, may his face shine down on you and may He alone give you peace and comfort.
With Love and Sorrow
Pam
Thank you David and friends for allowing everyone to be a part of Angela's journey. If we have to one day depart this world, what a beautiful way - surrounded by family and friends throughout the world. My heart is with each of you as we mourn our loss.
David, know that she is smiling that beautiful smile down on you. May God Bless you for your strength and compassion.
I will continue to share my wonderful memories of her.
Love,
Melissa Clouatre
David,
There is not much I can do this morning but pray for your broken heart. I look foward to celebrating Angela's life with you and all of her family and friends!
Angela,
You have made it home! So many miss you but we rest in knowing that you are now FREE of all that pain, suffering and heartache!
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
David,
It has been an honor to witness this story of courage, faith and love. You are incredible. We continue to pray for peace and comfort for you and your wonderful circle of family and friends.
Tammy thank you for keeping us all in the circle.
Fred and Lorraine
David and Tammy,
Well no longer does Angela have to "only imagine". Now it is ours to wonder, did she stand before him, or to her knees did she fall, did she shout halleuia, or could she even speak at all, we can only imagine. But one thing is for sure, Angela has now seen the life that has never been told. She has now been give her wings.
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I pray that Jesus will cradle you and the children in his arms over the next few days and give you peace and comfort. Look upward for your strength.
What a profound impact Angela had on so many people. For that you should always be proud.
Love you all,
Peggy (mary) Halbrook
Kesa,
I am so sorry for the lost of your precious sister. All these beautiful prayers that freinds send are just so powerful. I will contiune to pray for you and the rest of your family that God will uphold all of you. I know there is nothing I can do or say to take away the pain, but please know that you will be lifted up in my prayers and with that I hope you feel the love of God surround you. What a wonderful sister you are. To be there for your sister meant so much to Angela. You have set an example for all of us of what it means to be a sister. Know that God will provide for you all; even in your time of doubt, He will still be there holding you all in the palm of His Hands.
I love you, and hope you and the family are surounded by God's love.
Love, Laurie
Dave, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. So sorry to hear the news.....Angela is at peace finally and in a better place!
d.brown
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Dave:
I was at the Global Pet Show this weekend in Orlando. Saturday morning I stopped by the Fluker booth to get an update on Angela, and that's when Sam told me she had passed the night before.
I have been following her web site, and see what a wide and deep source of friends and family you have to support you and the kids. I'm afraid I do not have much to contribute as far as support - but want you to know I have been thinking of you since this began and praying for you all. Knowing you and Angela for so many years, watching your family grow, and knowing the joy of being a father myself - I can only imagine the pain of your loss.
However - I know the love and support of your extensive family, friends and acquaintances will sustain your and your kids. I also know that Jesus is walking right by our side at all times, providing the extra support when we need it most.
I can't express the admiration I have always had for you and Angela as a couple. Moreover, you have always been one of my role models - both in business and epically personal terms. Just know there are so many, long outside the borders of Louisiana that are thinking and praying for you and your family.
Yours in Christ,
Bill Rauch
David,
Praying for strength and peace..
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Dear David,
My heart is so heavy for you and the kids since hearing of Angela's passing. I want you to know that Angela's presence would light up a room. Her smile was contagious. And we all learned something valuable about life after just one conversation. Your life together , and the memories you've created, along with the miracles God gave, will carry you through the difficult times. Knowing Angela is with Jesus and they are watching over you and the kids, will give you strength.
We have prayed for you and your family through this entire journey, and will continue to lift you in prayer. May God continue to bless you and the kids, give you the strength you need to care for them, and carry you when you feel burdened. You are an amazing husband and father, and Angela's spirit surrounds you in the kids, the memories, and the love you've shared. God Bless you each and everyday. With love,
Diane, Brian, and Olivia Beauvais
Dear Mr. David,
Hi, it's Shelby Hetherington. My mom called me and told me about Ms. Angela yesterday. I am on a mission trip in Knoxville and I won't be able to come with my mom and dad to the funeral. When I met Ms. Angela she was very nice to us and she gave me a big hug. She didn't know me before that. I wish I could have taken that cat because I would have named it Angela so I won't forget her. She was so pretty and she was nice to my mommy. I told my mom to please let you know that over spring break or in the summer I would love to come and help you with your kids. I know I live far away, but she was so nice to me I want to do something to help you. My mom cares about all of you so much and I want you to know that even though I don't know you that well, I do too. I wish I could come. Sorry. I will be praying and I put your family on the list this morning at the church where we are on mission.
Jesus Loves you all.
Love
Shelby H. :-(
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me
David, Tammy, Steele and all of Angela's close circle - my prayers and thoughts are certainly with you. Angela has fought a good fight, and though we here in this world may think, through our sorrows, that the fight has been lost - Angela has truly won this fight - as her makers above. The hard part for Angela is now over, and she has reached the destination that we all prepare for while we are here on earth. Just think, she has met her maker-how awesome is that!
Our Father above would not have taken her from you yet if he was not prepared to help you get through your diffuclt time as well. Thank you all for letting us share this journey with you!
I will continue to pray for you all.
Dana Rivet Kimble.
The Heavens are rejoicing since Angela has arrived home. For all of her loved ones who will miss her terribly, may God comfort your hearts and minds until you are eternally joined with Angela once more. I pray that our Father in Heaven will take good care of David and the children as they mourn the loss of this very special person who will be sorely missed.
My prayers are with you,
Valerie Wilson
David, family and friends...I was so sorry to hear of Angela's passing. You and the kids are in our prayers and may her spirit always shine on us all.
Best Regards,
Ben Mullens
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Good Morning David,
When Haley dropped me off to my car yesterday, I headed for New Orleans. When I turned on the radio, this song was on..it is another song, like Dancing with the Angels that speaks volumes. I turned up the volume and sang it as a prayer to our new guardian angel!!!
Homesick by Mercy Me
You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you
I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home
I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again
And I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now
Praying for your broken heart.
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
P.S. Just arrived back to Chattanooga. I was honored and blessed to be at her beautiful Mass and burial. I am so thankful I was there.
Dave,
I heard the service was so beautiful.We were certainly there in spirit, and I am sure everyone had such wonderful memories of their own time with Angela. Thinking back, even though I knew you before Angela, it seems like she was always there. I have such sweet memories of her as well - whether it be at a Treen Team event (thamks Jamel!), or just at the Cricket Farm... such fun times.
My prayer now is the same as your other pals... that God gives you unbelievable strength as well as much-needed rest.
I look forward to seeing you and the children on our next trip in.
Call me if you need to chat - we are always here for you.
Love to you, the children, Diane, Steele, John Michael and the rest of the entourage! :)
Jayne
936.7910
T2CreativeTN@aol.com
David, Good Morning. I hope that you find the strength to read these posts soon. They are all so powerful and full of love and support for you and your family. I am praying for you to begin to enjoy the life that you have now. You are so dedicated and obviously proud of your children. They will fill you days with joy and laughter again. They are the evidence of Angela's existence on this earth and they reflect her love, her character, her beauty and her charm. Find in them a little bit of her. Anyone who knew her can see her in them. You have a blessed life to behold and carry on. You have the love and support of friends too numerous to count and you have the prayers of people you don't even know. God is taking care of every need that you have and he will be there in the quiet times of uncertainty. He will reveal himself to you in ways you will not expect and when the time is perfect he will bring you out of this and move you into the next chapter. Serve him with your whole heart and good things you will reap. Take care and especially take time to thank God for what he has given you. It far surpasses what has been taken. While Angela was indeed taken before you were ready, the time that was given for you to share with her was so great and full of love. You have a lifetime of happiness that most of us never get even a small glimpse of. You have been truly blessed. I am continually praying for your heart to mend and for your smile to return. Take care and take time to care for you. You have spent months being the caregiver. Now is the time to allow your friends to care for you. Remember that through Christ Jesus ALL things are possible. I love you friend.
In Christ
Pam
Good Evening David,
Just stopping by to say hi and that I am thinking of you and your three babies! When getting in my car from the Nashville airport, I was just driving..did not really want to be doing that b.c I was distracted with my thoughts of the last 24 hours. Then of course, this song came on and struck a cord....
You CAN spend your whole life buildin'
Something from nothin
One storm can come and blow it all away
Build it anyway
You CAN chase a dream
That seems so out of reach
And you know it might not ever come your way
Dream it anyway
God is great but sometimes life aint good
And when I pray
It doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway
I do it anyway
This worlds gone crazy
And it's hard to believe
That tomorrow will be better than today
Believe it anyway
You can love someone with all YOUR heart
For all the right reasons
And in a moment they can choose to walk away
love em anyway
God is great but sometimes life aint good
And when I pray
It doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway
Yeah I do it anyway, YEAH,
You can pour your soul out singin'
A song you believe in
That tomorrow they'll forget you ever sang
Sing it anyway
Yeah sing it anyway, YEAH, YEAH
I sing
I dream
I love anyway, yeah.
I miss Angela, I hate that your heart is broken and so much does not make any sense.
The words Father Carville spoke will stand in my mind at that is the Mystery of our Faith...
So, I will continue to pray even though it does not turn out the way I wanted it to...I will do it anyway... I will put one foot in front of the other when all I want to do is think about Angela, I will do it anyway...
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Hi David, Earlier tonight I was very angry and frustrated at my own situation and wrote you an email about that. As time went on and I began to cool down I once again went to this blog because I am so awed by the love that is within the words written here. It makes me feel foolish for allowing the earthly things get to me. I read over and over the words written to you and to Angela throughout this documented journey and I realize that God gives us all just what we need for the moment. I sit here again, reading and rereading over the things that those who love say. It makes me see that my problems are minimal and insignificant to this thing called life. We are called to live in such a way that the entire kingdom is influenced. To be sure my living today was on no influence to the kingdom cause. Our job as Christians is to spread the good news and to edify those in need and to love on those who are hurting. We are to be the very aroma of Christ. I can assure you, I wasn't feeling it today. God Forgive my unbelief. Nevertheless, in my weak and wretched humanity, I pray.... I pray for you and for your children and I pray for your future and for you lonliness and pain. I pray for the nights to whisk by so that in the dark you do not have to remain for too long. That will be the unbearable time. I pray that Angela will be known by her children and not just as a memory. That they will KNOW their mother because those of us who love you will not allow them to forget what an awesome person she is. I pray that your mind will not be overtaken by thoughts of mourning but by thoughts of happier times past and of the times to come. I kneel before almighty God and I do ask why. The answer will not soon come, but I know Him and I trust Him and He is right always. Forgive my venting in your email and know without doubt that even in my own weakness I pray.
Loving you and your babes in Christ
pam
Hey David and family,
Just letting you know that all of you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. I hope this week brings a little bit of your "scheduling" back for the kiddo's.
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
David,
Just letting you know that you are still in thoughts and in our hearts. You are welcome to bring the kids back out to the Retreat Center ANYTIME you get a break. We love seeing all of you.
Debi
David,
I was sitting here at work and thought of the times that Angela and you would bring by chocolate covered crickets for me and Todd to try while working the house. I thought you may like to have that memory as well.
I am sorry for your and the childrens loss.
I am sure she watching over your whole family and will be the ANGEL on all of yours shoulders from now on.
Kevin
hey David!! so wish i could have been there when mom and dad came down!!! think about you and the kids ALOT!!! prayin for yall as well!!! stay strong!!!
love yall
Callie
Hi David,
Just stopping by to say hi. I know many people are still thinking and praying for you all the time!
I hope the 4 of you have a good weekend.
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Hey Dave,
Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you. I hope you are SLEEPING now! :)
You remain on our hearts.
xxoo,
Jayne, Kevin and Jacques
936.7910
T2CreativeTN@aol.com
David,
Just a quick note to let you know I am praying every day for you and your beautiful children.
I tried to decide on advise for you, however I have come to the conclusion you don't need advise. You just need to continue to be the wonderful father, friend, businessman etc. that you already are. Also, you need to know that all who love you are here for you anytime, anywhere you need us. The Best Friend you have is Jesus and he is with you.
Love,
Connie ..........Texas
David,
Like so many others I continue
to pray for you and your precious
children believing that God has
come alongside you in your pain. I
pray that He will be your constant
companion as you journey through
the valley of the shadow of grief
and give you rest. Words fail to
adequately express the deep feelings of all who grieve with
you and for you so I will close
with someone else's words entitled
"The Price of Love"
Grief never ends, but it changes.
It is a passage, not a place to stay.
The sense of loss must give way if
we are to value the life that was
lived.
Grief is not a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith...it is the
price of love.
Hi David,
Wishing you a wonderful week with your babies. I know they bring you so much joy during this time of grief.
Continuing to pray for your broken heart!
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
David,
You and Alex, Christian and Katherine are in my prayers every day. I hope each day is getting better than the day before. When you lose someone you love you never never stop missing them, it just gets easier to cope. Keep the fond wonderful memories on top and enjoy them. God opens the light up as you need it.
Love. Connie.........Texas.
David and family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss and continue to pray for you and your children. May God give you continued strength to endure and faith to be at peace. God Bless you and your family, Diane Franklin Dubroc > Houston, TX
Good Saturday Morning David,
I hope all of you have a good day. I had a dream of Angela last night. It seemed so real that when I woke up, I had to really think where she is. She was so happy and she was with you and Alex, Christian and Kat. in church.
Praying for you and your babies.
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Hi David,
Just wishing a wonderful new week filled with many blessings.
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Hi David,
Just wishing a wonderful week. Continuing prayers for you and your family. I am rejoicing that Angela is free of pain and suffering! At Easter, I thought of her tons.
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
I am David's neighbor and am pleased to report that David and the kids are doing well. They have frequent visitors and Alex is playing soccer and having fun. David and the kids came over before Easter to eat some crawfish. Our son Ryan took the kids for a ride on the 4 wheeler and Adrian took them on the golf cart. Christian will soon be a pro at eating crawfish. Please continue to keep in touch with them and offer support and love.
Hi,
Thank you so much for your update on David and children.
Connie Howard/Houston TX
Hi David,
Just stopping by to say hi and that you are in my thoughts. I hope the kiddo's are doing well. If you have a second, would love to see a photo of them.
Angela, I know you are very busy up there being a sweet angel to your family here. I know they miss you so very much. Always thinking of you!
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Hey Dave,
Just wanted to let you know you have been on mind a lot lately. I hope all is well.
Let me know when you will be our way. I wish we could see you this summer, but if we have to wait until fall, that is OK!
Love you,
Jayne
936.7910
Jayne.T2Creative@GMail.com
Happy Father's Day David,
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
Just wanted to say hi. Hope all is well.
Miss you,
Jayne
225/936.7910
Happy Birthday Angela!!!
I know your celebration will be HUGE in heaven!!! You have your Mom and Dad at your side once again!!!
It won't be by a phone call tonight but I will be talking to you!!
Love, peace and HOPE,
Lowry
We miss you!!!
Love Alex, Christian, Kat and Dave
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